When it’s “NOT SO OBVIOUS”
“Ah! You don’t know that? It’s so obvious!”. More often than not this is the response to my questions (both spoken and unspoken) when I converse with people who are from a diverse background or to be more specific not from the same profession as mine. One of the most recent incidences happened when i was talking to a web designer, who is a freelancer. I wanted to know if he works alone or has some partners to work on different portions of web designing, so i asked him “Who does the illustrations?” and the guy rolled his eyes and said “Of course an illustrator!”. Really! I thought it’s done by a hair dresser! This is not uncommon. Many of us would have experienced this sometime or the other. And more importantly we would have reciprocated the same when we think the obvious questions are too lame to answer. My one sentence message to all of us who intentionally or unintentionally are likely to repeat this behavior in future – “NO, ITS NOT SO OBVIOUS” …